Mentors are important to guide you through your legal career, but a bar exam mentor can be crucially important to help you pass the bar exam.
The bar exam process, from registration to preparation to sitting for the exam, is overwhelming. Each step of that process is stressful, so going through it alone for the first time makes it even harder.
While general bar exam advice is abundant (and only sometimes helpful), having a go-to person who can provide you with tailored advice to help you through the bar exam is a must-have for any bar taker.
What are the best qualities to look for in a bar mentor?
- First, it goes without saying that your bar mentor should be someone who has successfully (and recently) taken and passed the exam. While other kinds of mentors (parents and friends included) may have good intentions, only a previous bar taker will understand the specific kind of schedule and demands the bar imposes.
- Second, find a mentor who can make time for you up to 30 minutes a week and who will allow you to be selfish during this time. In other words, find a reliable volunteer who understands that you need this time to be about YOU and the challenges you are facing, and not about THEM. The right mentor will understand that your time is limited and valuable.
- Third, your mentor should be a GREAT listener -- someone who understands that his or her primary function is to support you and to let you talk about what's on your mind. Think carefully before enlisting the help of someone who may want to talk at you instead.
So how can you lock down a bar mentor?
Reach out to someone in your network and be direct in asking for help. A good place to start is with recent alums -- their bar prep habits and routines will still be fresh in their mind.Give them an overview of the kind of help you’re looking for and schedule a weekly or bi-weekly time to connect. Don't be shy in asking; the worst that could happen is someone will say no, but more often than not people are flattered and honored to help.
Still on the fence about taking the time to find a mentor?
- Scheduled times with a mentor allow you to decompress, relieve stress, and give you an outlet to vent, complain, and seek advice from a trusted resource who can sympathize.
- A consistent voice on the other end of the phone can keep you accountable and share in small victories—it’s important to have these over the course of a long summer of studying.
- Regularly speaking with someone who is NOT currently studying for the bar will give you a good perspective and prevent you from being sucked into the ever-present and ominous stress vortex created by your fellow test-takers. Sometimes the advice of friends who are studying for the bar is helpful, BUT these "advice sharing" sessions usually lead to someone bending your ear for an hour about THEIR study strategy and how stressed THEY are. You don't need this kind of distraction, so try to avoid it.
- You'll want periodic pep talks from someone you can call in a pinch. As every bar taker will tell you, there is at least one time during the summer where you’ll need someone to talk you off the ledge. Line that someone up now.
YOU CAN PASS THE BAR EXAM. CRITICAL PASS CAN GET YOU THERE.
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